Sauna Etiquette: The Unwritten Rules You Need to Know
Every culture has its sauna rules, and breaking them — even innocently — can disrupt the experience for everyone. Here is your complete guide to sauna etiquette, from Finland to London.
The sauna has its own social contract. It is largely unwritten, varies slightly by country and venue, and is taken seriously by regular users. Newcomers who break sauna etiquette are usually forgiven — the sauna community is generally welcoming — but understanding the rules in advance makes for a more relaxed first experience.
The Universal Rules
These apply everywhere, regardless of country or venue type:
Shower before entering. Always shower before entering a sauna. This is not optional — it is a basic hygiene requirement. Public sauna etiquette assumes that everyone has showered immediately before entering. Arriving directly from a workout or a day outdoors without showering is considered disrespectful to other users.
Use a towel on the bench. Sit on a towel, not directly on the wooden bench. This is both hygiene practice and social courtesy. Most venues provide towels or remind you to bring one.
Be quiet. Sauna is a space for quiet conversation or silence. Loud talking, laughter, or phone calls are universally inappropriate. The sauna has a meditative quality that should be respected.
No phones. Phones are never appropriate in the sauna room. Beyond the practical (they will be damaged by heat and humidity), using a phone in a sauna violates the shared experience. At most venues, bringing a phone into the sauna area is explicitly prohibited.
Do not rush the löyly. In communal saunas where anyone may add water to the stones, ask before ladling. "Shall I add more?" is the correct approach. Some users prefer dry heat; others like frequent steam. A quick check before ladling is considered considerate.
Leave when you are ready, quietly. There is no need to announce your departure. Simply stand, collect your towel, and exit calmly.
Finland: The Strictest Standards
Finnish sauna etiquette is the most codified of any sauna culture. Key rules:
Nudity is standard and expected in most Finnish saunas. Wearing swimwear in a traditional Finnish sauna is considered eccentric at best and mildly insulting at worst — it implies distrust or squeamishness that sits oddly in an environment built on openness. If you are uncomfortable with nudity, choose a venue that explicitly accommodates swimwear.
The sauna is a place of equality. This means that social status markers are left outside. Do not bring your phone to demonstrate availability. Do not discuss your job title or income. Do not perform. The sauna strips social hierarchies — you are expected to allow this.
Conversation is quiet and personal. Finns are not especially talkative in the sauna, but genuine, quiet conversation is welcomed. What happens in the sauna stays in the sauna — sensitive conversations shared in the heat are understood to be private.
